and some more, but one site did suggest the dried milk/butter version is not the best.
good luck, especially with the bhapa doi, oh heavenly pudding!
SUBSTITUTE FOR SWEETENED CONDENSED
MILK
1 c. plus 2 tbsp. dry milk
1/2 c. warm water
3/4 c. sugar
Mix dry milk and water. Set in pan of hot water and add sugar, stirring until sugar is dissolved. This is equal to one can of sweetened condensed milk.
SWEETENED CONDENSED MILK:
1 c. instant nonfat dry milk
2/3 c. sugar
1/3 c. boiling water
3 tbsp. butter
Beat all ingredients together. Process in blender until smooth and store in refrigerator. Makes 1 1/4 cups or the equivalent of 1 can.
just is.